Help! 10 month terror

Maya

My daughter has been a complete angel with such a fun personality since she was born. But once she turned 10 months old, she is like a different baby. She refuses to sleep and when she does sleep, she wakes up every couple hours and doesn’t want to go back so sleep. She throws tantrums all the time about everything. My friend’s baby is about the same age and is totally quiet and content with sitting in her mom’s lap. My daughter doesn’t want to be held, but doesn’t want to be put down either. We recently went to a baby shower together and people were commenting on how my friend’s baby sits so nicely and my daughter was causing a complete ruckus. It’s getting to the point where I don’t want to take her out anywhere 😢 What happened to my happy baby and what can I do?