I found out on Wednesday that my husband and I are expecting our second baby (our first will be 9 in September). Having PCOS I knew it was going to be difficult to conceive. I had my IUD taken out in November and my OB asked if I wanted to start Clomid right away. I told her no that I wanted to try without meds first.

My husband has always been a little apprehensive about having a second but when I pulled the goalie he told everyone we were trying, so I took it that he was more excited that I had thought. however now that we are actually pregnant, he seems so upset and had hardly said a word about the baby. I've tried talking to him, but he shuts me out.

I want to be excited and enjoy pregnancy this time around since our first was unplanned, we were not married and young. But his attitude is really ruining it for me. I just need some words of encouragement.

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