Is this really bad sexual assault?

Being slapped by **** edit now (ex) boyfriend because you laughed (because you heard his parents talking upstairs and they said something funny) while he went down on you

Telling him you weren’t comfortable showing him your naked boobs again so he slams you against the wall pulls them out and says “I’m seeing next time we’re together got it?”

Being basically forced to suck his dick when you’re tearing up because of how rude he is being

Being scratched on the back till you bleed because you’re “acting up”

I don’t want to come off on anonymous. I should have mentioned this before that we are not dating anymore. I have a new boyfriend now who treats me great but when we’re sexual I have flashbacks and I dont know how to tell him 😭