Sex without condoms

Ladies my boyfriend and I are wanting to stop using condoms because we’ve found that he doesn’t cum anymore and I feel bad being the only one who cums but I’m still fairly new to sex as I only lost my virginity about a month ago. I’m on the pill so I’ll still have that form of protection but I’m still so paranoid. What was your experiences with sex only using the pill? I know it’s like 99% accurate but I’m a wuss.