sex life went down hill

so we just had a baby boy 2 months ago have a long road to go with medical and surgeries ( another storie for another tim) anyways I think it was 4 months before I had our baby and still 2 months after and we have not been intimate at all hell he went even cuddle with me at night. I didn't know getting pregnant then having a baby would make our sex life be non existent. it is getting frustrating ug