do you think some people just aren't meant to have kids together because they aren't meant to be together?

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as in a couple who can't conceive together sometimes is a sign they shouldn't be together? I have heard of people just not being able to conceive together then splitting up and being able to reproduce with someone else.

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Well i think this sounds stupid what im about to half way say but im about to pull out my best hopeful crazy. Specific snails can control if thwy get pregnant and even hold the eggs until conditions are right to have the babies. WHAT IF.... People can do this too. Well to a certain degree at least. I was with my ex 8years and i never got pregnant we tried and he wasnt a good person towards the end and it would have been disastrous. He had a baby with someone else. So im holding on to hope of my crazy theory. 😂

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I think that the stress of not conceiving right away can be overwhelming and can lead to many things including not conceiving (yes it’s a cycle) and looking elsewhere. 
I’ve also heard of people leaving each other even after conceiving and after birth 🤷🏾‍♀️.

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Sometimes I think about that too. My cousin’s bf was ttc with his ex and it never happened. Now him and my cousin have a kid & she got pregnant as well with her bf. Also, my friend’s boyfriend has cheated on her and constantly beats her & she has let him cum in her since last year and hasn’t gotten pregnant. That I know of, neither of them have fertility issues. It can either be luck or just signs that they shouldn’t be together.

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No cause it comes down to science not love.

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It’s definitely not always why some people don’t get pregnant, but I think it could be true. A mom friend of mine was with a guy for years and tried to have a baby with him and never got pregnant. They broke up and she got with her husband and they have four boys together now. She really believes that it wasn’t meant for her and her ex to have kids

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I definitely don't think that's ALWAYS the case with being infertile, but my coworker and his ex wife were married 10 years, and couldn't have kids. They DEFINITELY shouldn't have been together. But think about this: if you're using it as an excuse to break up with him, then maybe you don't want to be with him in the first place?? I've never been married, so don't quote me on it, but that's what it seems like to me. But also, there are a LOT of better reasons not to be with someone than the fact that you can't have kids with him. I say if you love him and he loves you, stick with it, and see what happens. 💘 Good luck and best wishes!

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I voted yes but meant to hit no

do you think some people just aren't meant to have kids together because they aren't meant to be together?

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