After having a month that should have had 0 chance of failing and still not getting any vvfl let alone a nice BFP I find myself taking comfort in the fact that my particular hobby of having fish tanks and one shrimp (not the kind you eat!) tank does two majorly comforting things for me:

1. Proves that at least someone/thing can conceive in my house...

And

2. There DOES exist a thing as TOO pregnant!

LOL

(ps: there’s actually two soon to be moms in there but the other one is a much darker color and harder to see how stuffed with soon to be babies she is)

Edit:

I finally got a semi-decent pic of the other momma to be:

She looks more black than her actual deep blue in the pics but she’s too fast and likes to hide from direct lights so it hard to get a non blurry shot of her when she’s lit up well. But can’t wait to see her babies and the others together and hopefully know which is which by their colors tho they could all have the same father as far as I’d know. It’s like an exciting day to day surprise as the babies color up 😜 hehe kinda (tho not nearly the same) as knowing what your own bean looks like day to day in womb and after... but it’ll be another month at least before we get that experience it looks like... so this is my distraction/vicarious experience 😆!