Married couple help!

so I been frustrated with my husband.. in ways I'm in the wrong on how I feel on parts of it but on some parts theirs a reason why I'm frustrated and upset.. me and my husband been jumping to house to house, room mating with friends. we finally got a house though! but now he's having his friend that's married as well live with us AND only for a couple of weeks or whatever. but I guess I'm really annoyed because he never really asked if I was OK with it. that WE as a couple as a TEAM in a way should've had some talk and agreement, because that's OUR home. Yes, I was aware what was happening that it was like a group discussion. but nobody asked me what I thought. it was just all what my husband had to say. Of course I told him how I felt and I think he understands but I don't think he got the point that I should've had a say. and I'm frustrated like next time or in the future its gonna happen again. that I dont want it to be like a habit that he just doesn't come to me when I should have a say. Last, I feel like a b*tch because this couple is the one that's letting us stay at there home. so that's why I feel wrong for feeling that way towards them. but just upset at my husband.

* sorry super long but it would be awesome you guys help me out. we're a new married couple. I'm still understanding parts of a marriage. I love my husband truly that I don't want a one sided relationship. *