Here’s a backstory if you want to read it or you can scroll farther down to the question if you want...

My husband an I have been together for 8 years and married for almost 5. He knew from the start of our relationship that I wanted children soon after marriage but I wanted him to be ready too. I knew my mom had struggled with fertility problems, mainly PCOS but ultimately a ectopic pregnancy which left her unable to have any more children besides me, and I told my husband that I was worried I could have some of the same issues. I asked him to let me know when he was even slightly ready for kids so I could come off my birth control and see what would happen. In November 2014 he said he would be okay with children and was willing to stop all contraception. After stopping my BC my periods pretty much disappeared. This had happened before in college when I stopped BC but I’d never been sexually active at that time and wasn’t until I met my husband, so I wasn’t really concerned. I can’t say we actively tried, like using OPKs and all that jazz, we were just having fun, like making babies is supposed to be, but we became concerned when things didn’t happen naturally within a year or two. Fast forward to now, my husband is completely on the baby train now but still no positives. I was diagnosed with PCOS and have taken a few rounds of Provera and clomid but due to different work schedules (I’m a teacher, he’s a 3rd shifter), moving and other life happenings, we don’t feel like we’ve really been able to give it our all. In the last two years I’ve lost about 25-30lbs, got my A1C level down, and recently started taking Metformin twice a day. I did another round of Provera and this time my dr prescribed letrozole instead of clomid. I just finished the meds and now I’m waiting for ovulation. So fingers crossed! 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Here is my question...

Is there anything I can do, should do, or should not do, after having sex to try and increase our chances? I’m willing to try anything!