Eating me out

Sooo I’ve been seeing this guy for a couple months now. We make out and among other things but never to the point of him actually putting his penis inside of me😂 he’s tried fingering me but tbh it’s not pleasurable at all. It actually hurt really bad and I had to ask him to stop ✋🏻 he was so into it I felt bad😂 but I don’t think he even knows what he’s doing. Btw He’s not a virgin and I am. Anyway once we were in his truck and things got hot reeeeal quick and he pulled down my underwear and wanted to eat me out but I was scared and told him no because fingering was just sooo bad that one time that I was kinda nervous this would be just as bad lol he REALLY wants to eat me out🙈 any advice?🤣