I have a new partner who is bigger than I’m used to and makes love differently than I’m used to. I’ve experienced some spotting since we started having sexual intercourse last week and peeing when I cough. I know the vagina can stretch and expand and contract, I KNOW that, but what is going on here... are these things connected as they seem to be? It’s like a baby’s fist but I have given birth to an actual baby before, how can this matter and will it stop...