I'm so frustrated with my doctor because she said that when I get my ultrasound in a couple weeks it's not to even find out the gender. It's just to see if the baby is okay, which I am happy about but I will be 19 weeks and she is driving me insane acting like I shouldn't find out the gender of my child. I'm wondering if I should ask the guy who is doing my ultrasound to try and find out for me. What do you guys think I should do?