FTM trying to wrap head around breastfeeding

Sorry for a possible “stupid” question. But I just am Having a hard time wrapping my head around breast feeding and how to make it work for our little family.

I am a FTM - and I will be taking 14-16 weeks off of work before I go back - if things go to plan.

I would like to try to breast feed but also want to let my husband feed. But from what I am reading online you should introduce a bottle till week 10 - due to nipple confusion. Does that sound right? What have moms done out there?

Also I am looking as pumps covered by insurance are there any great ones people like? Can you heat up breast milk that you pumped? Sorry no clue what I am doing.