Upset
Lately I’ve just been really upset with my boyfriend we’ve been together almost 2 years in October and I’m just so upset lately and i feel like I’m upset at him almost everyday and I’m just tired of caring. I feel like he doesn’t care as much as he used to and it hurts my feelings . When we first started dating we were both in college together but he graduated in May of that year then in the beginning of this semester (September- December)the job he had was very flexible n we were able to see each other more often . Then in January he got another job which is more demanding he has to b up at 5am sometimes n gets out at 4:30-5 but I just feel like things aren’t the same I understand he’s tired from work but we don’t even see each other as often as we used to . We used to see each other all the time and talk on the phone at night and text in the day and now I feel like I have to beg him at night to talk for 20 minutes and I know he’s tired but like I just want to talk to him we see each other Tuesday’s and saturdays and like honestly for me it’s not much and I feel like sometimes I have so much to say and so little time and then I feel like when I tell him how I feel I’m like a broken record and we just go back and forth saying we don’t understand each other and it’s not that I don’t understand him but it’s hard for me to not be able to talk to him for a long time he’s been like my best friend and I’ve just been sensitive about hat fact that we don’t talk as much I know he’s tired like as soon as he comes from work he takes out his job then goes to the gym by the time he’s home from the gym it’s 8 or 9 then by the time he’s back from the gym he eats or has his own time which is fine I get it but then when he calls me it’s like 11 and he doesn’t want to talk much bc he’s tired and it hurts my feelings bc that’s like my excitement for the day like talking to him at night I look forward to it and it’s like he just doesn’t anymore and like to him everything is fine but to me it’s like annoying and not even on the weekend we talk on the phone Friday’s he goes to play soccer at night saturdays we see each other in the day and at night he has church and goes out with his youth group after and sundays he’s just tired from The Weekend . I just feel like I don’t fit in his schedule anymore and he says it isn’t true which is why we see each other every Tuesday and Saturday but I’m sorry I just don’t think that’s enough and I’m tired of feeling like I’m just a burden to him honestly.
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