I really want to know the sex of the baby and so does my husband but a few people have put me off saying “oh no, it’s like opening presents before Christmas, don’t find out” etc. I know I shouldn’t listen to others but it’s making me doubt, are we going to ruin this for ourselves by finding out? Then I thought maybe my husband and I could just find out and not tell anyone that we know, although he’s not so keen on doing this because he thinks that’ll be too hard to keep it a secret. What is everyone’s views on finding out?

Thanks 😘