it makes me so sad to see so many men and women in here that I've read about or they're talking about what they're doing or everything else it just makes me so sad to see how normalized cheating has become I am only 20 years old and have been married for 2 years and I have never once thought that cheating was okay. honestly that's why I know marriages or serious relationships or anything can last now these days because as soon as all the butterflies are gone and they don't feel the lust and all that other stuff they go and find somebody else that's just a fact relation that happens in the beginning that feeling goes away love is not a feeling it's a choice and if you don't want your significant other anymore and you don't want to be with them anymore leave them before you even go looking for somebody else it's just so pathetic and sad to see that people are so selfish and their relationships