My boyfriend brought home a pocket pussy and hid it from me. Is that normal behavior? Honestly?

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Having a toy.. yes. totally normal. but he shouldn't hide it.

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He is probably embarrassed if he hasn’t used toys much in the past. It would be the same way if a girl bought a vibrator and didn’t want her SO to know. He probably just wants to experiment.

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Maybe he wants something private? Not a big deal

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I encourage my SO to use his. He REALLY likes to have sex. And I’m pregnant and don’t want to 😂🤷‍♀️. I always try and help him out tho so he isn’t pestering me allllll night. And even when I wasn’t pregnant I would still encourage it. he doesn’t like it as much as my vagina or my ass but it’s better than nothing 😂😂😂😂😂.

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Lol. I bought some for my husband. It kinda turns me on seeing him use it. 
The hiding part is not cool. But I don’t see anything wrong with him buying it. Maybe he feels embarrassed and doesn’t know how you’ll take it. Maybe he just wanted to try it out for himself. Either way, be open with each other. Talk about it calmly with no judgement. Good luck.

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I would say yes but idk🤷🏼‍♀️ I don’t see what’s wrong with it.

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No idea why he would hide it but I bought one for my SO and I absolutely love using it on him and love watching him use it.

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Hiding it is weird because it’s just a sex toy. But I get if it makes you uncomfortable. I used a vibrator and my boyfriend got really uncomfortable for awhile even though he bought it for me lol. He still gets uncomfortable from time to time because he thinks I like it better.
If him hiding stuff bothers you talk to him. Tell him you want an honest relationship where you don’t hide things from each other. It’s nice to have privacy but trust is important in relationships and sometimes you wonder if they’re hiding small things what bigs things are they hiding. Not saying he is but that’s why openness in relationships is important. I don’t think this is something to worry about unless you expressed being uncomfortable with these kinds of things before, like sex toys and porn and he’s doing it anyway behind your back. Some people need privacy like that though. Sometimes I’m too sore for sex but need to get off so I use porn and a toy. If my boyfriend didn’t like it it’d stop.

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I offered to buy my husband one (while he’s deployed) and he didn’t want one lol.
But anyways, yeah, it’s weird he felt the need to hide it from you. That’s suspicious af.

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I think buying it is perfectly normal. Maybe he was embarrassed and that’s why he hid it? Just talk to him about it and see what he says

My boyfriend brought home a pocket pussy and hid it from me. Is that normal behavior? Honestly?

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