Feeling loose

Hi. This might sound weird but I have been feeling really loose down there for the past few months and I tried doing kegels for a few weeks. I didn't feel any different. I feel so unhappy knowing that I am that loose and my partner who may not even be happy. I can't have intercourse properly because I keep thinking about how loose I may be... I really don't want to see a doctor because I don't think they can help in any way than give advise so Any suggestions ?