Am I a bad person?

Question

I love my boyfriend but he is such a jerk sometimes I want to prepare myself for if I have to leave him. Like is that horrible of me? I just want to learn to be okay if something does happen so I won’t be so devastated! Am I a bad person for wanting to be okay without my boyfriend while I’m still with him?

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If he’s a jerk and it’s making you unhappy then maybe you shouldn’t be in this relationship. It’s ok to want out of it’s not feeling right. I don’t know too much about you or your relationship. I say take a step back and evaluate what’s happening between you two. If the bad significantly outweighs the good then you have your answer. Most importantly, trust yourself and your intuition. Best of luck, hun!

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Hell no! Better to prepare yourself now because you’re right, it may make it easier when it happens. At the end of the day you have to look out for you babe!!! 💖

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If he’s a jerk, leave him

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No, i remember exactly the moment I began to prepare to leave my ex. He was emotionally abusive. I am glad I did that. That was a big sign that I needed to leave.

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I'm currently mArried to a big ass jerk and I think about leaving him even when things are good but I'm weak... big part of it is my age, I feel sorry for him and financially I'm set. My biggest revenge is having a baby, few more years to collect alimony and save enough money to buy him out of our home... the weak side just feels sorry for him due to his upbringing, he really good looking and the sex is the best! The only advice I can give is just do what makes you happy because we can't change or modify anyone's behavior that's up to them to change... the only thing I can say that's changed in my relationship is I do not obsess over trying to make him happy when he slumps into his bipolar moods.

Am I a bad person?

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