My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3yrs and we both want a baby. He actually spoke on it first, but I want him to graduate from HS first if anything only bc I know how big of a deal having a baby is and I don't want that to get in the way of his study. We both currently are working; I have a pt and he has a ft. I really want the baby dust to come our way but I want to get more stable but my boyfriend isn't really understanding that. We will be moving into our own place soon since we just don't have our own car yet and I don't want to rush into things. If I tell him I want to wait he'll throw a little attitude but then he'll get over it by the next couple minutes but I also really want the baby now as well. I don't want the baby growing up in the situations that him and I both had to deal with tho. So I think if it happens it happens... So should we stop trying and just focus on getting more stable