Intruder/thief earlier tonight, please help 😭

Someone tried breaking in and stole our stuff that was outside a little bit ago. I'm now terrified to sleep or live here or anything. I called the police and security and filed a report earlier, but I don't think I can live here anymore. I was standing 4 ft from the door, I just froze when they started trying to get into the door, I was paralyzed. I think they heard my husband's voice and ran away.

We just signed another year lease this week and this happened, I just don't know anymore. Earlier this year we had someone looking in our windows at night. We have strange people looking into our living room every once in while, and I can hear people walking around outside our bedroom window sometimes at night, not frequently but it still happens. I don't know what to do😭😭😭 My husband doesn't really seem to care.

Also I have a severe anxiety disorder which makes this a lot harder on me because I cant just let things go. Also currently trying to get pregnant, I don't think it will be healthy to stay here in a high stress situation. Do you think I'm irrational with my fear? Any tips to defend myself?