I love being penetrated and it certainly helps with ‘getting there’

But unless I use my finger on my clit at the same time during sex, then I won’t be able to come.

Do you think it has something to do with not being turned on enough by my partner?

I am into dominant/submissive stuff and older men and my partner doesn’t fit into either of those categories. So perhaps its because I’m just not attracted to him or the sex enough to cum via penetration alone.

I can’t keep using my finger forever! It’s just not smooth and I feel like guys will start to think I’m weird!