Its My business!!! Birth control VENT

I had an IUD in for almost a year but got it pulled out due to unbearable pain (went to Ultra sound & it was up too high & the strings short so dr pulled it) well my family knows I took it out my grandma told MY PARENTS! Im 23 years old next month NOT A DAMN teenager!!🙄 well me & my boyfriend started using pull out & taking bbt every morning! Shes now been bugging me since I removed it in february to GET ON BIRTH CONTROL saying shes worried im going to end up pregnant, she messages me randomly on facebook saying Make appt @ kaiser & I’ll take you ! Of course she wants to GO ! She wants to know i have something! ive been nice about it , ive said condoms are fine she tells me thats not a reliable method?!?! Ive told her like 5 times ALREADY I DONT WANT HORMONES IN MY BODY! the MIRENA caused me to ALWAYS feel pregnant bleed thick blood & cramp ALL! Freakin! night! Plus it made me have moodswings and depression! Telling her any of that was pretty much a waste of time because shes right & im wrong!! My body is back to NORMAL NOW! & if you too got off Mirena recently you know wjat im talking about! So I told my boyfriend all shes saying about it & now he thinks im TRYING TO TRAP HIM hes making sure to use condoms now & before that if I was on top he wouldnt even let himself finish hed say hes not feeling it I get it 100% he does not want a baby right now & I dont EITHER! If I did I would of removed the damn IUD got knocked up & never said shit about removing it! But thats not the case! Im not stupid & i would never make someone be a dad that doesnt want to! His mom told him a few months back I need to get DEPO SHOT! i was pissed at him! Why would you tell your mother about out business! Im just so frustrated because now I feel like he doesnt trust me and it makes me not want sex right now & with everyone talking shit jist makes it 10x worse Hve you dealt with this bullshit wjat do i do?! Just needed to vent its been pissing me off !