hello!

my husband and I have been trying for what seems like absolutely forever to have a child. (2 years.) to shorten it up, He has a lot going on with him, and I do as well. including a possible chance of having open heart surgery soon-ish. I know all the women in here can agree how disappointing it is to be trying for so long and not have any luck. Anywho, I was looking into maybe us having a surrogat before we maybe tried adoption. however I know absolutely nothing about it. (other than some very sweet, generous lady carrying a child for us) I'm just looking for maybe some helpful into that could help us while my husband and I are discussing it. ❤❤❤ thank you ladies so very much!!

also, I'm not real sure what group to post this under...

ps... we haven't given up. we are still trying😊