My BF of 3 years lives in PA because of his job and I live in NYC because of mine. His family (mom dad brother and sisters)  however is extremely clingy and dependent on him and they also live in NYC. On the weekends it is always a battle of who will see who and where he will spend the night Bc whenever he spends the night at my house his mom complains or if he decides to spend the day with me she would call him literally all day for him to do stupid shit, like he would have to go to her house to make calls, or do laundry or even cook for her, meanwhile there are 3 other ppl in the house. I am now feeling that they leave everything for the weekend for whenever he comes from PA to do. This weekend in particular, he came down from PA Friday night late.. He was tired and slept rather quickly that I understand. Early this morning he had to leave because his mom needed "help". I had a few things to do myself so he left I expected him to be back maybe my mid day it is after 10 now and he is still my back yet. I called him he told me he is spending time with his mom and he have to take his family out . Every single weekend something like this happens without failure. I feel like the only time I see him is after he is worked up and tired from his entire day of running around. I expressed my frustration to him but he don't understand and he believes that he is just helping his family and I'm overreacting. I dont want him to chose but at the same time I at least want to spend some quality time with him without being interrupted. I'm really at the point where I am done and fed up wit him and his family. What should I do because I really feel like I am ready to be out this relationship. Am I overreacting? HELPPPP!! His family is driving me nuts with their dependent assess!!