Will my first time be good?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been 5 years together, we have a lot of confidence in each other. I have been postponing sex because I wanted both of us to have a good job and our college degree. Now we have achieved that and planning on loosing our virginities. I am on the pill, he already bought condoms and lube. I feel like we have waited so long and prepared too much for this moment, I am afraid to feel disappointed or to disappoint him. I know it isn’t supposed to be the best sex at first, but I really want us to have a great first time experience. 
What do you think?

Answer

First of all, bravo for waiting for your own reasons. But wow! Sex is the most natural thing in the world it isn't a taboo and shouldn't be treated like it. 
I will give you a word of advice. If you trust this man not to talk shit about you and you feel he can be trusted 100% with your feelings... yes do it do it do it!!!! 
But realise he may not be your one and only partner in life and you will experience different things and be excited about them. 
Don't put so much stress on it. It's just an natural act, not something that can be planned meticulously.

Answer

Just calm down and go with the flow. It won't be the best but its what you make out of it. If something is awkward laugh or talk about it and move on. As time processes, the more you try it the better it gets and the more creative it gets.
It's like queefing first time it happens you just wanna die but after a while it's normal but you gotta laugh and move on.

Will my first time be good?

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