TMI....but I poop ALL the time now since I'm pregnant. & I'm 31 weeks, FTM, and every time after my SO and I have sex..if I have to poop (or pee sometimes), I have some of the WORST pains between my butt and vagina. It hurts so bad I almost cry, Is this normal? Or is our sex too rough and that's what's causing me to hurt so bad? Just want some opinions from other moms/moms to be to see if yall have had the same thing happen to you & if it's normal..if it has happened to you, what did you change about the sex that helped it?