This is only our 3rd month TTC. I have used Glow and opks. I also bought a basal thermometer for temping, but I started to feel like a lab experiment so I took my temp for 2 days and stopped. This month I will be out of state and away from my husband during part of my fertile time so we decided to just take the month off and enjoy sex again. No opks, nothing. Taking away the stress of "we have to make a baby" has made it much easier to actually BD. We still have a chance to conceive this month and we are having more fun than the last 2 months. I used to get so annoyed at people telling me to "let it go" and "it will just happen", but there may be something to this. Maybe I'll get to be one of those people. I guess I will find out. Baby dust to all of us!