My husband insisted in buying a home. Now, I pretty much get none of my paycheck. He wants me to take over the car payment, help pay mortgage and utilities, pay my grandparents back for leading us our down payment money, and now he wants me to pay the credit card bill. So, in other words, I get nothing. I won’t even have enough to pay my phone bill. 😑😒 I understand I need to help him, but I need some of my own money too. I deserve to have some of my own hard earned money.

* I refuse to let him have control of my money because he gives it his mom. She works and easily supports herself and can spoil herself because she makes good money, but expects him to pay for her shit. I won’t do it. She treats me like shit, so should I support her?