So I find out on Wednesday what I'm having I'll be 17 weeks 4 days and im pretty much certain it's a boy I don't know why it's upsetting me so much if it turns that that I am having a boy and not a girl. This is my second pregnancy and I already have a little girl so i hate that I feel so upset. I mean I know i will love my baby no matter what it just really sucks feeling this way. Has anyone else felt this way before