Started dating this boy for abt 2 months. I told him I’m not interested in a relationship but we are having sex and dating. Whatever we have is also monogamous. He refers to himself as my man and me as his girl altho often it is as a joke.

The other day tho he told me specifically “btw you’re my girl now” . That kinda frightened me because I’m not sure if that was his way of saying we are officially together so I asked what he meant and his response was “I mean what I said...it is what it is”

I know I have to talk to him properly to find out exactly what he meant but in the mean time what do you guys think ?

Ps. The reason I’m kinda afraid of an official relationship just yet is cause I got out of a 4 year relationship earlier this year and the whole idea of getting back into one so soon kinda scares me altho it’s just a title in a sense. He understands and said he respects that however but I know he wants me to be his