So the other day I was home with my two kids (6 and 11months old) and it was a Friday. Friday's are my cleaning days and it just so happened that my son didn't have school then. Anyway, I was cleaning for a couple hours Bec obviously I had to stop every second or so Bec of my kids so I wasn't able to finish by the time my in law stopped by (1pm). Her response to me still cleaning was "oh you're still cleaning? I did everything at my apartment and also got my nails done" (we had a wedding that weekend). This is her usual talk and I knew she would say exactly that so I responded " look, you cleaned on your own schedule and didn't have two kids to watch while you were cleaning" I really thought that would shut her up and make her realize but boy was I wrong. She responded by laughing her snarky sarcastic laugh and saying in her condescending tone, "Anna, all you have to do is give the kids a toy and you clean, it's SO EASY" and just laughing to herself. I was BOILING inside.

Then today, she came over (I really can't stop her from coming over Bec it'll be a huge fight that will cause drama and involve my husband, FIL, and every aunt uncle in the family🙄) and my son was crying Bec I told him he would have a time out for his acting out- he repeatedly kicked doors in the house Bec I told him he had to eat his soup before eating his lunchables) anyway, she gets here and is all like oooohhh what happened my love, and he tells her and then she goes to me and proud and stuff saying , there's no need to threaten him and say that he needs a time out, you just have to tell him calmly not to act that way otherwise you're just making him more angry. Like ummmmmmmm fuck you and excuse YOU, gtfo out of my house lady😡😡😡😡 guys, I cantttttttttttt. I am constantly fighting with this woman and she's just CONSTANTLY IN MY BUSINESSS. She's CONSUMED in my life and I absolutely CANNNNNNOOTT deal with it anymore. She literally has NOTHING else to do with herself except immerse herself in my life and my kids. We live about 2 min away from each other so she's always over. And if I don't pick up a phone call from her she'll just continue calling until I pick up. And I am not exaggerating. I have soooo much anxiety just thinking about her. Advice?!!! She's a narcissistic, neurotic, in your face, and doesn't give a flying fuck about anyone that stands in her way.