So my husband and I have been house hunting here recently and we have two kids.(need more space) and I talked to my dad which lives almost 2hrs away from where we are now is getting a lump sum of money and buying a place and wants to give us his when he moves. (It's 3bdrms) my husband and his family aren't really talking(long story) so he isn't worried about them and I'm close with my mom who lives in the same town. We have only talked about it with my dad and with each other. A few days ago my husband brought up about moving to where my dad is. He is getting tired of his work and I would like to move away also but not sure. Where my dad is there's so many opportunities but I'm just undecided and if we did this it would be in the next couple of months which isn't a big deal but idk about going that far. And I am extremely greatful that my dad is wanting to give us his place when he gets a new one.

How would you guys deal with being undecided about it? (And I will be talking to my hubby about it when he gets off work)