Struggling to get iuis started

Kim

So I'm a day late and 98% sure AF is coming and I'm beyond frustrated with the hubs and obgyn... we took a few months off trying actively for my mental health, but now obgyn nurse keeps going back and forth on wether hubs needs a S.A before hand or if we can just start we are on cycle 36 and have only had one pregnancy that ended in mc about 2 years ago after 14 mos of trying

Now I'm at a loss of where to go now

Hubs knows he's on my crap list for being such a butt about this but the mixed message from obgyn isn't helping

Would you change docs? I didn't realize we would struggle for 6 mos and still not completed a single <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">iui</a>

The last time we tried got to the docs office and I had a cyst so they pulled the plug in the cycle

So what now

Has anyone else struggled to even get through 1 <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">iui</a>

( everything has checked out normal on me so basically need hubs to test only test I have left is an exploratory laparoscopy to definitely rule out endo)