IVF Venting!!!

Tori • 28. Benjamin born 4/17/19. IVF warrior.

So I had my transfer done on 6/18. They scheduled my beta for 6/25, 7dp5dt. Everything I read online says this is too early but whatever. After waiting by the phone literally all day (bloods drawn at 7:30am and still no word at 3:30pm) I finally call and they say “it’s negative, stop your medications and she doctor on Monday to discuss”. so I do. I’ve been super depressed and not taking care of myself like I was when there was a chance. Anywho today, TWO FRICKEN DAYS LATER!!!!!!!, I get a call from my coordinator saying that it was too early to test, I could still be pregnant, to keep taking my meds and come back Monday for another beta. I’m PISSED! First off, how did you schedule it for a week later and then tell me it was too early? Second, why did it take so long to call me and tell me this? Now I’m terrified that IF this worked in the first place we messed it up by not doing injections and estrogen pills the last couple days. Why is this so hard?! Normal people don’t have to worry about all this. They just get pregnant and have babies 😭😭