i’m a transgender guy, meaning i’m a boy who was born into a female body (i get a period, i have female parts, but i have a male brain and wish to take hormones and undergo surgery to correct that and be closer to being male). if you guys have questions, ask away.

anyway, to the point. i have a girlfriend and we’ve been going out for a few months, but i... kind of have a crush and have had that crush for years. he’s a few years older than me and one of my closest friends. i really like both of them. i don’t want to hurt her and i want to stay close with him while maintaining the relationships i have with each of them respectively (dating her, being friends with him). advice?