So a couple of months ago I cut my hair, alot. A good 12-14 inches. I love my new hair and so does my SO. But his brother and his friends are being dicks. Everytime we see them they make some joke about how i look like a boy, or a lesbian. I try to brush it off and not let it bother me, but it hurts. I've asked them to stop poiltely but they keep at it. Advice? Words of wisdom? Your own experienices? Anything would help. Thank you!