Can you see a penis at nine week scan ??

I’m desperate to find out the gender of my baby and when I had an early scan to check if everything was alright I looked between the legs but all I could see was umbilical cord nothing between its legs!!! I have three more weeks for my 12 week scan which does seem like a life time away and I know at my hospital they don’t reveal the gender at 12 weeks (in case they get it wrong and I sue them) as I did ask with my first. Xxxxx

They were even unable to tell me babies heart beat

All I know it’s baby has implanted on left side xxx