I'm not sure if it's considered cheating. For two weeks we've gone without talking. Everyone has thought we broke up. We made up and we are back together now. We were on the phone talking and I asked him what he did during the majority of his silence. He said he was visiting his sister, that I know is true. I asked him what he did while he was over there. He said, he spent time with his family, watched his nephew and hung out with a friend of his sisters for a full day. I asked him what they did. He said, they went to a rave... he did cocaine and she did ecstasy. I asked what else he did with her and if he initiated anything. He's like, we went to the rave and hung out and the beach and the most that we did was hug. I said, what kind of hugging? He laughed and said oh really? And I was like yeah really. And he dropped it and so did I.