Please I need your help 😔

Heather • 41 and 3 kids. Kids are 13, 10 and 5. One girl and two boys!
So yesterday was my son's 4th birthday and my wedding anniversary. All went well except my husband did not acknowledge our anniversary. I found out the gender of #3 to surprise him. I got him a beautiful card and a blue onesie. At first, he didn't get it. Then he did. I thought it was the best gift ever. Even my daughter made him a card. But he did NOTHING he did not even say happy anniversary. I am crushed. I can't stop crying. Why? Why? I got mad and he told me I was being "dramatic". I don't know what to do. I'm high risk and the stress is not good. Esp with SCH. I bled quite a bit yesterday. I cannot forget this. My heart hurts. I don't know what to do. I am SO angry. Any advice is most welcome. I am at a loss. Please help? 😭TIA. I have nowhere else to go. Thank you so much.