Ok, is it normal for your husband to say "I am not trying to have scheduled sex". I want a baby so bad and he says he does too but why is he freaked out by scheduled sex. It's not like I say it's time and lay on the bed. Of course I would prefer to get in the mood. When I ask him why he is so freaked out by it he says because I need to telax and let nature take its course. I agree to a point but I feel like we should be going by my ovulation. Does anyone have this problem?  Or am I just crazy?