So today my boyfriend and i decided to finally have vaginal sex after me being terrified.

I wasnt really aroused or that wet it was just like a lets get it over with kind of thing.

He started putting it in and the more he went in i felt a really sharp pain more and more into my vagina that he had to stop. I dont think he ripped my hymen and i think he was hitting it. It was really painful! Is this normal? Any tips for first time sex? I think i was just really tense and nervous and not aroused enough.