My husband & I have been married going on 3 years in September. He doesn't really care for sex (always been that way) but I'm the total opposite. I could have sex everyday. Sometimes I get frustrated because I'll be really horny & he just doesn't wanna have sex. It's been times when he will give in & give me what I want but it's not fully satisfying because he's not really into it. I've tired the masturbating thing & yea it gives me what I need at the time but it's just not the same as sharing that intimate moment with your spouse. We have sex about 8-10 times a month & im sure everyone is gonna say that's plenty but it's not when your spouse isnt in to it. He has a lot of pressure on him coming from many different things that he has going on in his life so I can understand. But when I'm stressed sex helps me relieve that. He's the opposite. What's a girl to do? Anybody having this "problem"?