So my best friend just started ttc thos month and she’s literally obsessed with symptom spotting! I was when I first started to try but I’ve hit a comfort of being okay and accepting that I’ll get pregnant when it’s the right time.

My problem with her is that she keeps texting me about symptoms she’s having and asking me about mine . I’m getting annoyed by it Bc I’m really not trying to focus on my symptoms. Her texts keep reminding me that I’m trying and I’m getting anxious about it because it’s almost as if she’s being competitive with me or comparing our symptoms.

I’m 4 days late and I keep getting bfns, but EVERY morning she keeps texting me asking if I got my period yet! “ period yet” makes me feel like she’s expecting me to get my period instead of supporting me and hoping im pregnant .It’s so insensitive and obnoxious . I don’t know how to tell her to stop asking without hurting her feelings.

She also has this idea that “ we’re trying together” and I have to keep reminding her that my journey has nothing to do with hers and she clearly isn’t getting the point. I don’t like reporting to her about my stuff but I feel like I have to and it’s making me uncomfortable! Help!!!!