something wrong with me ?

Question

My boyfriend and I rarely have sex , at frat it’s great and he hard but like 5 minutes later he gets soft & i know he tries to keep me from seeing it but once I finds out he’s soft I get so upset and cry or get mad cause I feel like he’s not into me , I am 8 weeks pregnant and I’m not sure what else to do . Sometimes it gets where I just wanna leave him , what can I do ?

Answer

I might sound like a bitch but good grief if you want to leave him simply because he can’t get his dick hard, he deserves better than you anyway. When a guy can’t perform it’s one of those huge ego things and you whining and complaining about it is probably making it worse and then when he tries to do it the next time he’s probably so focused on keeping hard that he can’t.
Sex is an important part of a relationship but it isn’t everything. It really isn’t.
You said you are 8 weeks pregnant. If this whole issue began after you found out, he’s probably scared of “hurting the baby” or some other crazy notion that men get when women are pregnant (my husband will refuse to have sex once I hit the 3rd trimester.. why? Because “the baby is too close”... what?! Lol) and this could be causing his issue. Talk to him instead of being a drama queen, if it’s the whole pregnant issue... try explaining he can’t hurt the baby, all is fine. Have him as the doctor at your appointment, but for the love of all things good ..quit whining to him about it. It’s 100000000% gonna make the issue worse because guys are weird about their dick not performing right.

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You "cry or get mad"? Wow! That is really selfish of you. I hope for his sake, you grow up and learn to nurture your partner's feelings.

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You're reaction to it is probably making the situation worse. Try to be more patient and understanding and see if it helps. Guys can go through stuff like that (assuming this is new) and his stress or fear of it happening will make it so much worse. Would you want him judging you for something you couldn't help?

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