So ... my partner and I have been ttc for 3months. We have planned this for over s year getting prepared and stuff. He usually wants sex all the time but this month he’s not that interested. He knows that the next few days are important in that way but I’ve tried to keep the sex part spontaneous and fun.

I have asked him if he is getting nervous about trying for our second, or maybe changed his mind. He said that he wants it so much and that’s all he’s thinking about.

Am trying not to put pressure on him but I can’t help but feel ... I don’t know annoyed and disappointed 😔

I have changed everything this past year after we had talked about if for months. Stopped smoking, dieting, working out to get fit and healthy for this. He hasn’t done much.

I feel like it’s all on me. I don’t no what to do!

I think he maybe worried about his sperm. As he has mentioned a few things randomly. Our friends are going through <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">ivf</a> with a sperm donor.

I know am being selfish but it feels like he’s just not making an effort. I do everything bills, work, house but I can’t do this myself!

Anyone have any advice please no nasty comments, I love him so much and am scared I have done something wrong.