I need advice on what to do in my current situation with my friend.

This “friend” of mine - and I say it like that for many reasons - has really started aggravating me.

She gets around, if you know what I mean.

I’ve never really been that type. I’m insecure about myself in many ways, and she’s a good friend in the sense that she tells me “you shouldn’t worry about your looks, you look fine!” Etc.

But I feel like often, there are more cons with her than pros.

She “borrows” my clothing items from me and never gives them back.. she’s had quite a few of my favorite shirts for months, and she won’t give them back because she says she “forgets to bring them.”

Anytime she wants to go out somewhere, say, the mall (for example) She invites me. If I say yes and we hang out, she always, and I mean ALWAYS bring up gas money. maybe I’ve got it twisted, but if you want to go somewhere and don’t want to go alone so you INVITE a friend, that friend doesn’t owe you gas money!

Finally. When we do hang out, she always wants to bring guys around. “Hit up your hoes,” she tells me. I don’t have “hoes,” so I’m stuck there clueless. And like yesterday, when she did find a guy, she told him, “bring a friend so savannah has someone too.”

The guy she found was a mutual friend of ours, and he just so happened to bring my ex boyfriend’s cousin (who, isnt very attractive, and kind of smells,) and so I get crammed into the backseat with the guy while she’s up front having the time of her life with the guy she invited.

She drove, and so I had no way home until her “fun” was over.

When she dropped me off at home, she said, “so are you gonna give me some gas money since I took you to the mall today and we rode around with them?”

Like,

So yeah. She still has my clothes, and she’s one of my only friends, so I don’t know what to do.

Update** 4am 7/2/18

THANKS LADIES! I thought I was crazy!❤️

Update: July 4th

So yesterday she wanted to “hang out” and I ignored her so she told me to tell her a good time to “bring my shit and she’d never talk to me again!”

She brought my things, and I’d made a petty Snapchat story (she’s always cussing at me and stuff) saying “friends are a joke”

And got sent this...

I really did delete all those contacts, including hers.. looks like it’s going great for never talking to me again!😂😂

Thanks for your advice everyone❤️