My parents are separated and since I was young we have been on a every other weekend plan. I live with my mom, so when I go to school on the weekdays i am with her. Then very other weekend I trade of between my mom and dad.

This has worked okay for the past 18 years. I will be entering college this Fall and I will be in closer proximity with my Dad. So it is as if my lifestyle will just switch roles between my parents. I’ll be with my dad when I go to school and every other weekend we will trade off.

However, I don’t like this anymore. Especially during summer, I feel like I am being tossed around like a child. My parents are also immature where they get mad at me when I am with one parent for an extended amount of time.

For those who are under a divorced/separated household or anyone who is listening; How would you handle this? Is there a better plan I can use so that both my parents will be happy but so will I? Especially since I will be going to college, what is a better plan?

Also am I being too dramatic about this, I have been feeling like this for a while. I don’t have much friends that live a separated lifestyle so I don’t have many to talk to.

Thanks

Much help needed