So I’m 25 years old and still a virgin. I’m not saving myself but I just haven’t had many boyfriends and I don’t want to just hook up with someone I don’t care about. It seems kinda weird that I’m still a virgin at this age so I don’t really tell people but I’ve also never lied about it if I’m asked. I’m also just pretty self conscious in general so this doesn’t help matters.

Well I’ve started talking to a guy online and he’s older than me. He mentioned he wants a sexual relationship but also a girlfriend. I told him I don’t hook up but we can go out and see if we like each other.

I’m afraid, especially with older guys, that they’d be freaked out that I’m still a virgin. How do I tell them? Should I tell them? I have had guys online stop talking to me once they found out and I don’t want to be along forever 😂