My Bf confess on his special fetish from Japan. Competitive Swimsuit from Japan.

At first I have three normal swimsuits which I think I’m fine with it ... Things gets worst when he shopped secretively for 6 competitive suits (multiple colored and even special editions from olympics: I have now plain pink, red with white, two royal blue, another blue with superwomen characters, full of arena cartoons)

Instead of gifting me proper female attire, his focus was on swimsuits, we even quarreled over this where I tried to stop him from buying too much and that I didn’t like it.

Argh!!want to wear sexy bikinis for beaches and not competitive swimsuit!!!

Usually I will be waking up uncomfortably from tightness from the suit and tight cramps- blocking blood circulation to my legs. I even tried to buy sexy comfortable one piece corset from La senza to allow me to sleep properly as below.. best of both worlds.. but he didn’t like it😢

For me one set of couple swimsuits it’s enough...Only when we’re actually swimming & his mind was occupied but I think he love the tight underwear feeling wrapping his balls and my body shape in tight swimsuits.

I did wanted to end this relationship before several times due to this reason.

This may sound ridiculous but I did ask if he will like me without me in swimsuit or going swimming with him... he said yes!! And it breaks my heart and I cried for nights when he’s happily in Japan shopping for my swimsuits.

But recently he did reflect and say He will make sure I won’t be sleeping in the suits...

Nah he’s always the first to dozed off...

No judgement but is this “normal” for a guy?

I’m trying to accept it but is it too much for me to handle? Am I losing genuine self character just to accommodate him?

Is it weird for him to kept asking me to put on the super tight high cut swimsuit just to fulfill his sexual fantasy desires almost every time we had sex?